Too much boredom in your bedroom? Is your sex life as fresh and exciting as your uncle Joe’s polyester leisure suit? Then it’s time to action. Couples should make a “
date” for sex. Do whatever you want beforehand; go to dinner, a movie, have a glass of wine by candlelight. Just remember to set aside time for sex. And get out of the house once in a while.
Sex can become routine if you come home and think about your job, the laundry, the kids’ soccer games and errands. Escape to a place that’s free of your reminders of everyday life. You can think about the present – making love – and not be so concerned with bill to be paid or whether you set the alarm clock. If getting away is a problem, try “redecorating” your bedroom. New sheets and candles around the room will make a difference. Clear out the junk and clutter; ditch the television. Try something new, like lingerie, massage and sex toys. Go slowly – make sex leisurely, playful and creative. Figure out what your sexual fantasy is; find out your partner wants, too. Talking openly will bring you closer. It will make sex more interesting for both of you.
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